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Wednesday, 28 January 2015

What Scouting Means To Me

I decided that following yesterdays slightly negative post, I would come back today looking at something positively instead. I know I've banged on about Scouting before and a lot of people probably don't care, don't know about it and really don't have an interest in it. But for the people that do care about Scouting, I think this post will be very easy to relate to.

So, what does Scouting mean to me? I think the short answer would be quite simply: everything. It sounds ridiculous but I'm certain that Scouting is literally in my DNA, so many of my family are involved in it and I grew up entirely surrounded by it, I had no chance of escape, it was predetermined for me! My parents are Beaver Scout Leaders and so my twin brother and I were often dragged along to the meetings in our little car seats to be watched over by 38th's founder Ernie whilst they led the meeting. Here's proof:


When I was growing up Scouting was a second family to me. It was a place to make friends, have fun and experience things I'd never have done otherwise. For example, the centenary camp at Bowley, where tonnes of Scouters camped and there were shows and all sorts happening, it was incredible. World Scout Jamborees are also something indescribable that Scouting does, where Scouts from all over the world meet in a different country every 4 years. My brother was lucky enough to go to one in Sweden, and this year some of the young members from the 38th are actually going to Japan. It's crazy, it really is. Scouting has let me experience so many things like gliding, real rock climbing, camps, amazing activity camps in France, meeting Bear Grylls, taking part in a show and even going to Disneyland Paris! I am incredibly lucky to have been born into a family that introduced me to this amazing organisation and I am even luckier to have the pleasure of being a leader within it.

Me and my brother as Beavers with the current Chief Scout

Now I'm 'grown up', Scouting has a completely different meaning to me. Yes, it is all about fun, friends and experience, but now it's primarily focused on making young people feel the same passion and enthusiasm that I do about Scouting. If, by my role in Scouting, I can make a difference in any child's life then that is more than enough of a reason to continue with it, in my eyes. I have witnessed all sorts of children pass through Scouting, people who have troubled home lives, people who don't live with their family, people who have illnesses and daily struggles, or just 'ordinary' people. Some of the young people that attend a weekly meeting with us need that break from the stuff going on at home, to just be young and have fun with no worries. If we can provide someone with a little bit of happiness then that is what it's all about.

Words cannot describe the proud feeling you experience when you get to watch someone grow through Scouting. For example, someone who may have originally caused trouble or been angry and aggressive a lot of the time who is now funny, pleasant and actually enjoyable to have around is such a rewarding thing to witness. To give people that opportunity to change themselves, to overcome fears, to learn morals and to be proud of who they are and what they do is amazing and I am incredibly thankful for that privilege. Scouting has been deemed 'geeky' and 'boring' and 'boyish' by the small minded people in society, yet if you give it a chance and really experience the things it offers, you'll understand that it is the complete opposite. I wish when people at school picked on me for being a Scout I turned around and told them that they were wrong. I should have been as proud to be part of it then as I am now and I hope that the young people I see on a weekly basis are proud to be part of Scouting too.

As I said before, to be part of Scouting is like being part of a huge family. It can be difficult, trying and incredibly exhausting. I will admit, there have been times where I've wondered 'why do I do this?' and wanted to give it up. What most people don't realise is my work for Scouting, alongside thousands of others, is entirely voluntary. I don't get paid for the hours I spend a week running meetings, preparing activities or planning events. I do it because I want to make a difference to people's lives. In relation to it being like a family, you form bonds with people you work with and I am sure that anyone who has been part of the 38th can vouch for that, and agree that when sadly members pass away or leave that we are all affected by it. 

The fact that I, as a 20 year old Leader, am part of the future of Scouting is an honour. I take it seriously and I want to be one of the many people that ensure Scouting remains such a widely loved and appreciated movement. I have no doubt that it will be part of my life forever, in one way or another, and I embrace that idea with all of my being. Out of everything I have done in my life so far, I can safely say that this is the one thing I am truly proud of. I know for certain that I will never regret my time spent on Scouting and I hope this might help some people understand just why I am so dedicated to it.

Love,
Emma x

Sunday, 4 January 2015

Things I am thankful for...

Hey!

In relation to my 'positive thinking' for 2015, I have been spending a lot of time reflecting on the things I am thankful for in my life. Let me tell you, there is a lot of things I am so thankful for. But I thought I would just pop a few things down, and if I ever feel like I need a boost I can read this post and it will remind me of why I should be happy!

Friends & Family

This one is something I am incredibly lucky with. I have a wonderful family, I live with my twin brother, my mum and dad and our two beautiful dogs Shadow and Buzz. Buzz is my puppy and he never fails to make me smile. I have a huge family, so many aunties, uncles, cousins, second cousins, and it is so lovely always having someone to go to if I need anything. My parents are so supportive of anything I want to do and always have been, I think they're the main reason I'm so determined and headstrong. My brother is an absolute idiot, but we get on really well and he really is the better half of me! I don't know what I'd do without him.

Buzz

Shadow & Buzz

As for friends, well, mine are the best. I have a few of close girl friends that are consistently there for me and always brighten my day. I also have a giant group of friends, about 20 of us, and they are like a huge, dysfunctional family. I literally love them all so much and they're so much fun to be around! They accepted me into their 'group' about 4 years ago now and they're just wonderful.

The 'family'

Books

Yes, that sounds so geeky.. But I'm currently in my second year of doing an English and American Literature degree and I have been obsessed with reading for as long as I can remember. There aren't any words to describe the feeling of getting lost in another world for a while, and I just love it. I have so much admiration for writers, I wish I had the skill they have!

The 'Little' Things

By this, I mean the things we take for granted, that we count as normal yet for some people they just don't exist. For instance, a house to live in, food on the table, money in the bank. The freedom to say and do what I want, for the most part. The right to education and to have the opportunity to learn and develop myself. The things that we don't even give a second thought, yet we really should. No, I don't often think myself lucky for these things, I'm the same as everyone else and don't focus on it much, but I suppose I should!

Scouting

As I mentioned in my last post, Scouting has always been a huge part of my life and I am so thankful for it. I am now a Cub Scout Leader and there is nothing more satisfying that seeing a group of 8-10 year olds having fun and being happy as a result of the voluntary work I do. I want to be a teacher one day, and quite honestly the time I spend Scouting reminds me exactly why I want to do it. It really is such a rewarding hobby and it is as important to me as a job. In some ways I feel it's more important than a job because it's voluntary and so I am making a conscious decision to work for these children and to do the best I can for them. 

Me in Disneyland Paris on a Scout trip

Me and Bear Grylls

So, there you go, a few things that make me happy and I am very thankful for! I have to say I'm probably more lucky than most, I basically have three families! My blood relatives, my friend family and my Scouting family. Not many people can say that! I'm now in an extra good mood after writing this.

Emma x